Relationship is a way through which two or more people are connected. You being in a relationship means you are not only responsible for your own wellbeing. You are also responsible for others welllbeing.
This includes their physical, mental and emotional wellbeing. All of which you can have an impact on. Because a whole lot happens in relationships. Some are good, others bad and others are very ugly. The things which happen in a relationship determine how far the relationship will go.
In every relationship there are key forces which help strengthen the relationships. One of which is communication.
Communication is very important in our daily contact with others and so it is in relationship. Knowing the kind of person your partner is, will help you know what to say in every point in time.
In our relationships there are certain words which should not be said so as to feel secure and happy in our relationships. These things when spoken, can hurt your partner and scar them, even if it is said playfully.
Keep reading to find out the things that should never be said in a relationship; that is if you really want a healthy relationship.
5 things you shouldn’t say in a relationship
1. Why cant you be more like?
In every relationship, every partner would like to feel appreciated in whatever thing he / she does. Every partner wants to feel that sense of uniqueness and not compared with others.
In other words it is not right to compare your partner to other people. This is because your partner is totally different in every possible way from others , therefore instead of using such words say something like “I love who you are”.
2. You cant do anything right
In our world everyone wants to feel that their presence is of great importance. In your relationship do not let your partner feel worthless. This word said can hurt your partner both emotionally and psychologically so please don’t use it.
3. You are stupid
Communication in a relation should be of sweet words which will help strengthen the relationship. Using words like you are stupid shows how disrespectful you are towards your partner. It also shows how you do not value your partner. Therefore it should not be said.
4. You are worst
Using words like this, your partner will start to feel that he/she disgust you and therefore he/she is no longer needed.
I wish you could afford to buy me…
The financial status should not matter in a relationship if only you truly love that person. You telling your partner that you wish he/she could afford to buy you something you desire is indirectly saying that you wish he/she had more than enough.
Whether or not a relationship works out depends on the people in it. So you must always try to put more effort in doing things that will bring you closer together. Instead of doing things that will tear you apart.
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